Digging Deep for Discipline

January 11th, 2010

By Heather McNamara

One word triathletes know all too well is discipline.  To be a competitor in tris requires hours of dedication, training and focus.  It means getting out of bed when you want to sleep in, it means going for a ride or run when you’d rather be lazy, and it means being smart about nutrition when you’d rather not have to think about it and just eat chips and salsa instead!  So for many of us that can mean the hardest time of year to be a disciplined triathlete is not during peak race season, when schedule’s are tight and everything runs like a well-oiled machine. No, the hardest time to maintain the discipline of triathlon is the down time of year, after most of the big races have come and gone.  The time of year that comes as warm weather begins to cool, when summer gives way to fall, and days full of swimming, biking, running and obsessively recording all sorts of mind-numbing data in training journals start to get replaced by days full of comments like “Hey, what time is The Family Guy on?”  It’s a time generically known in popular American culture as “the holidays”.  Or as I may start referring to them, “the horror-days”. 

Don’t get me wrong, I love the extremely commercial yet poignant and religious time of year between October 31 and December 26th as much as the next guy.  But is it me, or is it becoming increasingly harder to not blow 9 months of solid nutrition and training in the last 3 months of the year?  Why is it that the focus of the holiday season seems to be consumption, whether it be fiscal or food?  From the end of October right through December we are bombarded by temptation from media, friends, family, and co-workers to eat drink and be merry.  Initially, with the latest competitive accomplishments still fresh in mind, succumbing to this constant barrage can easily be averted.  But no normal person can expect to fend off these attacks forever.  Sooner or later, especially when the past season becomes a fading memory,  even the most disciplined can fall prey.  We find ourselves suddenly less lean, less fit, and moving at a pace that feels very close to that of a sloth.  

So what is one to do when the realization of January hits?  When it is cold and dark outside, when our bike shorts or swimsuit fit a little less comfortably?  When the disconcerting jiggle of our own body parts as we run is enough to bring us to tears?!  Get right back into it!  Grab a tissue, dry your eyes and suck it in…er I mean up, and look back on the past couple of months with fondness and appreciation.  Be thankful for the opportunity to take life a little slower and to have extra time.  Make a vow to do better in the future, then forge ahead. Put on those bike shorts (ignore any unsightly bulges, most of us are training  in our basements this time of year anyway), and ride away (or in place as the case may be) with the same determination and discipline that was there before.  Focus on what can be done in the future, not what can’t be changed in the past. 

See, even if the discipline waned a bit in the final months of the year, that is ok.  It is still there, waiting to be resurrected along with the smelly running shoes in the closet, waiting to be called upon once again.  And when that happens discipline will get you back to where you want to be.  Fit and ready.  Ready to start the whole crazy process all over again.  Ready to focus, with discipline, on the road ahead.  The road that leads to the life we love and wouldn’t trade for anything, even if it does get put on hold for a few months out of the year.

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The Misfit Toys of Triathlon

December 11th, 2009

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The Misfit Toys of Triathlon

 

            It is Christmas season and all of my favorite shows are on T.V.  The boys and I are cuddled on the couch watching the same Holiday specials I watched as a young girl.   The snow is falling outside and the thermometer is dropping rapidly every evening from the chill of the Colorado night.  My boys laugh at the characters and the antiquated animation, but they love it just the same.  One of my favorite ones is about the misfit toys.  I can relate to the feeling of just not fitting in.  I got the last issue of Inside Triathlon and it was beautiful, filled with pictures from Kona, but there were no pictures from Maui, not even one.  You see we Xterra athletes are a strange bunch, the misfit toys of the triathlon world. 

            I know this personally because I live in the Mecca that is Boulder, Colorado.  It is a wonderful and beautiful place to live, but as a triathlete, it can be well, overwhelming.  As an Xterra athlete, I have found that the mountain bikers scoff at me for being a triathlete.  The road triathletes also look down their noses at us.  How can we be triathletes when we ride mountain bikes?  The ITU racers scoff as well.  Xterra racers, they can not even swim, they say.  Do not even get me started on the Ironman crowd, only those that have raced along side us think Xterra is hard.  I understand an outsiders’ confusion.  I mean how hard could it be if the whole field is beaming ear to ear.   You see, that is where we have everyone fooled.  Little do they realize that we are actually having fun out there, yes fun.  There is little attitude among the pros, we all start together and is not uncommon to hear the cheering you on as you cross the finish line.  We know a lot about our fellow racers.  We know what they do for work, we have met their families, and we have shared in their heartbreak and their triumphs.  We are at the start of the race laughing and wishing each other good luck.  We encourage each other, by name, as we pass our fellow racers.  We smile at the camera crews and give them a thumbs up and a smile, even when we are seriously hurting.  When you grow tired of racing Xterras and move on, you will be surely missed and people will reminisce about you and the time you shared together.  Maybe it is because the people at Team unlimited are so wonderful.  Maybe it is because Xterra was born in Maui.  I think that we are just a wonderful group of people bound by our love of playing in the outdoors, wherever on that globe that may be.  So to all you outsiders, come and join us we promise a great time, good company, and some wonderful stories.  For me, I am fine being labeled a misfit; at least I have some wonderful company.

 

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Dear Santa

December 8th, 2009

 Christmas List 2009 by Heather McNamara

Dear Santa,

Unlike my friend and fellow team mate Becky, I have not been very good this year.  I have been terrible about household chores, putting off things like grocery shopping and laundry so I could train.  I didn’t work much, and what little earnings I had I spent on frivolous items, mostly workout clothes and tri-gear.  I wasn’t around much for friends or family, and when I was I was either exhausted or busy planning for my next race or training session.  I also missed a lot of church, and didn’t visit my mom nearly as much as I should have.  

But I wasn’t all bad in 2009.  If one of my kids, my husband or a family member or friend needed something I was there for them.  And, what little work I did do involved serving others, whether it was for the non-profit soccer club I work for, or my pilates students that faithfully attend my weekly classes.  And, even if my house isn’t the cleanest it is warm, stocked with food (even if I didn’t prepare it!), and full of laughter.  I’m also here every morning to see my daughter off to school and home every afternoon to welcome her with a hug and snack.  So maybe I was a teensy bit good after all. 

That being said, here is my Christmas list for 2009:

Discipline.  Whether it’s about food choice or training, please give me the discipline to do the right thing.

Limitless energy.  I’d love to be able to log in a 20 hour training week and not think twice about doing it again.

Better technical skills on the bike.  I want to fly over obstacles and lean into tight switchbacks and make it look easy.

Better swim technique during races.  Why is it in the pool I glide with effortless ease, but in a race my stroke deteriorates into what could be described as ”painful thrashing”?  

Faster legs.  I figure since Becky asked for these you might as well bring a set for me, too.

Patience.  I seem to have less of this as I get older.  Must be a “as we age we have less time on earth to get it all done” sort of thing.

And of course, health and happiness for my loved ones.  This is a given since without it all the gifts in the world are meaningless.

Thanks Santa!  And have a very Merry Christmas!

Your friend Heather

Dear Santa

December 8th, 2009

 

 

 

Dear Santa,

           

            I have to say that all in all, I have been a very good girl this year.  At my job, I did the job of many, but my company only had to pay for me.  I did all my chores.  I cleaned the house, shoveled the walk, did the laundry, made many meals, and brought home the bacon.  I did all of my homework, with my two boys, school projects and spelling tests.  I put others first, even to my own determent.  I was polite to others.  I did not throw too much sand in the sand box.  You see Santa; I have been very good this year.  So here is my Christmas list, I hope it is not too long:

 

  • A job for Paul.  It has been nice to have him home, but my wallet is much lighter then it used to be and he is getting bored. 
  • A good night’s sleep.  I would like to be able to sleep in just one day.  One day with no little boys screeching at the top of their lungs at 6:30 am.  No sound of little feet running above me.  Nowhere to be, nothing to do.
  • A longer Sunday.  No matter how I try to not wait until the last minute, Sunday night comes and I am running around like crazy trying to get ready for the week.
  • Health and happiness for my family and friends.  It has been a tough year for us all, please make next year a little easier.
  • Longer days.  It is pretty depressing to get up when it is dark and go home in the dark.
  • Lots of Colorado sunshine.   Nothing makes my smile bigger.
  • More time to relax.  There are just too many things to be done and too many places to go.
  • A warm January.  We all know in Colorado February through March is extra snowy, so a little break in January would be nice.
  • As little of the Crazy Colorado wind as possible.  Last year it blew off my roof and almost blew me off the road.  Please give us as few of 80 MPH gust days as possible.
  • Lots of snow, but mostly in the mountains.  I love the Colorado snow and I love to play in it, but it can be a major nuisance when you have to drive to work in it.  Let it snow, but stay on the ski slopes.
  • Faster legs.  I know this is a big one, but if you could help me run faster, that would be great.
  • Less Itchy skin.  The pool in the winter wrecks havoc on my skin, so if you could help it itch a little less that would be great.
  • Less crashes.  There were a lot of trees and rocks that jumped out in front of me on the bike this year, so a little less next year would be great.
  • The ability to eat as many fries and drink as many beers as I want and not gain a pound.   MMMM cheese fries.
  • A little less attitude from my boys.  Please remind them that they are still little boys and they have plenty of teenage years ahead of them for eye rolls and back talk.
  • For my husband to love me as much as he loves riding his bike.  I always come second on that one.
  • A clone to go to work for me and do my chores.  Then I can do what I really love.  If a clone will not work, a huge trust fund and a maid will do.

 

 

Santa I know you may not be able to fit all of these things in your sled, so just one more thing.  Please let me have some fun in 2010.  That should be an easy one.

 

Thank you Santa,

Becky